Dem Bois Podcast

How your Circle Can Save your Life with T.J. Jourian

November 29, 2023 Shawn Aaron Season 2 Episode 40
How your Circle Can Save your Life with T.J. Jourian
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Dem Bois Podcast
How your Circle Can Save your Life with T.J. Jourian
Nov 29, 2023 Season 2 Episode 40
Shawn Aaron

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Today we have another Dem Bois Podcast First! In this episode, my guest TJ Jourian shares a difficult time in his life where he had to revert back to his previous gender and how that affected his mental health. And, I want to give an emotional warning, because we do discuss suicide ideation. We also discuss masculinity, being trans identified vs. being a man, cultivating healthy higher education environments, and much more! 

We talk:
TJ’s transition journey - 5:48
How his family accepts his identity now - 15:50
How reverting back to his previous gender affected his mental health - 24:42
TJ’s higher education and how he navigated those spaces - 34:47
The importance of community in higher education -  47:10
How you can work with TJ - 54:12

Click here for transcript!

References
Boys Don’t Cry (movie)
Brown Boi Project
Emergent Strategy by adrienne marie brown


Read more about our guest in his bio below:

T.J. Jourian is a scholar, consultant, and coach with Trans*Formational Change. He helps changemakers – diversity workers, activists, creatives, scholars, and leaders – reclaim and transform their energy, as they transform the world. T.J. partners with colleges, companies, conferences, and community-based organizations across Turtle Island in their efforts towards equity and inclusion. His research examines race, gender, and sexuality in higher education; masculinity, transness, and racialization; and campus gender and sexuality practitioners. T.J. has published extensively, including the co-edited books Queerness as Being in Higher Education: and Queerness as Doing in Higher Education: Narrating the Insider/Outsider Paradox as LGBTQ+ Scholars and Practitioners.


Are you enjoying the Dem Bois Podcast? Donate today to help support the cost of production and the honorarium we pay our guests for their time. All donations are tax-deductible. Click here!


Donate to support our 2023 Gender Affirming Surgery Grant Fund here!

Show Notes

Send us a Text Message.

Today we have another Dem Bois Podcast First! In this episode, my guest TJ Jourian shares a difficult time in his life where he had to revert back to his previous gender and how that affected his mental health. And, I want to give an emotional warning, because we do discuss suicide ideation. We also discuss masculinity, being trans identified vs. being a man, cultivating healthy higher education environments, and much more! 

We talk:
TJ’s transition journey - 5:48
How his family accepts his identity now - 15:50
How reverting back to his previous gender affected his mental health - 24:42
TJ’s higher education and how he navigated those spaces - 34:47
The importance of community in higher education -  47:10
How you can work with TJ - 54:12

Click here for transcript!

References
Boys Don’t Cry (movie)
Brown Boi Project
Emergent Strategy by adrienne marie brown


Read more about our guest in his bio below:

T.J. Jourian is a scholar, consultant, and coach with Trans*Formational Change. He helps changemakers – diversity workers, activists, creatives, scholars, and leaders – reclaim and transform their energy, as they transform the world. T.J. partners with colleges, companies, conferences, and community-based organizations across Turtle Island in their efforts towards equity and inclusion. His research examines race, gender, and sexuality in higher education; masculinity, transness, and racialization; and campus gender and sexuality practitioners. T.J. has published extensively, including the co-edited books Queerness as Being in Higher Education: and Queerness as Doing in Higher Education: Narrating the Insider/Outsider Paradox as LGBTQ+ Scholars and Practitioners.


Are you enjoying the Dem Bois Podcast? Donate today to help support the cost of production and the honorarium we pay our guests for their time. All donations are tax-deductible. Click here!


Donate to support our 2023 Gender Affirming Surgery Grant Fund here!