Dem Bois Podcast
Dem Bois Podcast
Repairing the Relationship with My Birth Mother and the Death of My Chosen Mother
Losing a parent is hard. It can feel like losing a part of yourself, leaving a space that will never be filled… or so it seems. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, I share my experience with the death of my chosen mother. While her health was in decline, my birth mother’s behavior toward me completely shifted. It felt like that motherly love just flowed.
I haven’t recorded a solo episode in almost a year and in this episode I discuss that too. But, this topic weighed heavily on my heart, so I hope you enjoy it.
I talk:
A quick rundown of solo episodes from season 1 - 2:32
Things I learned from my birth mother - 7:41
Sharing the podcast with my family - 20:36
My birth mother’s shift in behavior - 29:54
How I met my chosen mother - 39:34
Being at peace with the passing of my chosen mother - 50:16
Click here for transcript!
Read more about Shawn in his bio below:
Shawn Aaron is the Founder and Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc. Shawn is a strong believer that trans men of color should have access to gender-affirming care and surgeries regardless of their economical status. Shawn is passionate about addressing intersectionality when it comes to one’s gender identity and access to non-bias healthcare. Shawn identifies as trans-masculine and understands the importance of accessing transition related care.
“I podcast to share stories and experiences of gender expansive leaders within my community. This allows me to build connections across different communities of color and people spanning multiple generations. From the rising generation of queer and trans folks of colors to the elders who paved the way for me and others. There are few storytellers that document the lives of trans men of color. As the host and creator of the Dem Bois Podcast, it is imperative that I continue to amplify and highlight the lives of trans men of color. Visibility = PossibilityTM
Through my storytelling, I demonstrate that:
- Trans lives are not monolithic.
- Trans men of color have always existed in society.
- Trans men of color elders exist and represent possibility for the next generation.
- Young trans men of color now have a point of reference of what they can become since our stories are often underrepresented.”
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