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Extracting Closure From a Past Situation with Shawn Aaron

Shawn Aaron Season 4 Episode 106

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Why is it so important to express your feelings? Because people aren’t mind readers and if you don’t express yourself, they may never know how you feel. And, I had to learn this the hard way. This episode of Dem Bois Podcast is a solo episode where I discuss extracting closure from past relationships. I share a story about a lost love and the impact of my unexpressed feelings, and I emphasize the need to communicate love and care to those people in our lives. 


I talk:

07:33 - The impact of isolation and suicide

09:19 - Extracting closure from past relationships

11:44 - Navigating love and loss

27:07 - The importance of expressing love


Episode References:

Ep. 3 - Surviving Homelessness

Ep. 103 - Building Brotherhood Using Unconditional Love with Kalvin Byrd


Read more about Shawn in his bio below:

Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™


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